The Hidden Fees Checklist: What to Ask the Hotel Sales Manager
Hotel contracts for weddings, whether for room blocks, venue hire, or catering, consistently contain fees that are not visible in the initial quote. These fees are not necessarily hidden in a deceptive sense. They are simply not presented up front in most hotel sales conversations, and couples who do not ask about them directly often encounter them for the first time in a final invoice.
These questions are designed to surface the full cost picture before anything is signed.
Room Block Questions
What is the room rate, and what does it include? Confirm whether the negotiated rate includes taxes and resort fees, or whether those are added separately. A room quoted at $180 per night with a $40 resort fee and applicable taxes can land significantly higher than the headline number suggests.
Is there a resort fee, and is it applied to all guests in the block? Resort fees are increasingly common at hotels and are often not included in the room block rate negotiation. Confirm whether a resort fee applies and whether it is negotiable as part of the block agreement.
What are the attrition terms? Attrition refers to the minimum number of rooms the hotel requires the couple to fill. If guests do not book enough rooms to meet the minimum, the couple may be responsible for paying the difference. Understand the minimum, how it is calculated, and what the financial exposure is if the block underperforms.
What is the cutoff date, and what happens to unbooked rooms after that? Confirm the date by which guests must book to receive the negotiated rate. After the cutoff, rooms are typically released to general inventory at the market rate, which may be higher or lower than the block rate.
Venue and Catering Questions
What are the food and beverage minimums? Many hotel venue spaces are rented with a requirement to spend a minimum amount on food and beverage through the hotel. If your catering spend falls below this minimum, the shortfall may be charged as a fee. Confirm the minimum before selecting a space based on the rental rate alone.
What is the service charge, and what does it cover? Hotel catering contracts typically include a service charge of 20 to 25% on top of the food and beverage total. This is often labeled as a service charge rather than a gratuity, and it may not be distributed to service staff in full. Confirm what the service charge covers and whether an additional gratuity is expected.
Are there setup and breakdown fees? Some hotels charge separately for the labor involved in setting up tables, chairs, linens, and decor, and for breaking it down after the event. These are sometimes called room rental fees or setup fees and are not always included in the venue rental quote.
What are the parking fees for guests? Hotel parking, particularly in urban locations, can be expensive. If a significant number of your guests are driving, the parking cost is part of the overall guest experience cost. Ask whether complimentary or discounted parking can be negotiated as part of a venue or room block agreement.
Is there a cake-cutting fee? Many hotels charge a per-person cake-cutting fee if you bring your own cake rather than ordering through the hotel's catering. Confirm whether this applies and what the per-person rate is before assuming you can simply bring a cake from an outside bakery.
What additional fees might appear in the final invoice that are not in the initial quote? Ask this question directly. A reputable hotel sales manager will tell you. The answer gives you a complete picture of what you are agreeing to and prevents invoice surprises.
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